So this last girl I was talking about, I really like her. We get along really well, we can talk about anything, it's pretty good. Problem is, I'm deffinitely in the "friend zone". What's that crap? It's where you go when you're obviously the best option for them to go with but instead they go for people who don't treat them well, or if they do care, their actions aren't showing it. Then they will complain to the person in the friend zone about it. Yea. It's cool....I can deal with it. I have a really good time being around her so I can't say I mind much. BUT, I know in a few months it'll just keep getting to me. I'm at the point now where I actually miss her. I don't see her for a few days and I really want to see her again. She heard that I liked her once from a friend who thought they would be helping me out by telling her(when they drank a little...). I knew once my friend told me that it wasn't going to go anywhere from that. It's not like it's not obvious anyway. It's just that now I'm seen as a friend. I'm told how to get out of it by other people. It all involves paying less attention, not being available, and generally just not being as nice. For some reason that seems counterproductive in my mind yet it works well for people in practice. People are warped. I don't get them. I'd like to be able to say " I care this much about you, You mean this to me" but it would either a) do nothing or b) make things awkward. There isn't a c because I know she hasn't been thinking the same things. It's disappointing. I'll keep looking....