Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Woot, just got back from vacation going up to my granpa's house in mass. It was pretty awesome. I think the highlight was me and my buddy giving these 2 chicks lion tamers. That may not sound that great, but it's been a goal of ours for a while. Pretty much the best thing ever.....

Me and my friend were talking to the one girl mentioned before while playing pool and I don't understand some people. I think I say that a lot. We're both giving her advice. She explains a situation, we say "this is how it is" and we're right. I know we are. And I think she sees it too. But then she goes back with her friend......who I think I'm disliking more and more every day.....and none of the advice gets through. Even my friend who gets on my back all the time for helping this girl out a lot, said to me after she left that he felt bad for her. It's because she's a nice person that's taken advantage of a lot and seems to be manipulated easily by her friend. It won't change. I really wish it would.

The thing is I don't think she realizes how guys think(MOST guys). We were all drinking a bit at the time which made being completely honest a whole lot easier. We pretty much said that most guys who would invite 2 chicks to a mountain house would just be getting them drunk to have sex with them, and would just be trying to at least make moves on them constantly. And a lot of guys have that plan even just at parties, why would you think people bring so much beer? To get lucky. The people that do that obviously don't have respect for the girls. My friend kind of singled me out(a little awkward for a moment but right) and said how I haven't even made a move on her the whole trip even though I like her. It's because I respect her(not necessarily for her actions, but rather that I would never want to take advantage of her). Guy after guy that we talked about that she is interested in are horrible examples of how to treat someone. I'm just waiting for the chance to tell her what I've learned from being around her and her friend about how to attract girls. All the things I've been doing wrong the past few years.

For one, if I meet someone it's important to get as far with that person as I can in the first meeting. If I can get sex....awesome. That should be my goal. And it's great for the guys because we don't have to make titles like "boyfriends" or anything because we can just say we're "getting with" a chick, but the beauty of it is we can get with multiple girls at the same time and no one will care because the relationships aren't official. And if I decide to just ignore a girl for a few weeks to get with another one more often? It's cool because I can just start talking to her whenever I feel like and she'll come crawing back. It's perfect. And if I ever want to have sex with a girl and she won't do it at first, all I have to do is beg blatently for a few weeks and they'll come around. Especially if alcohol is involved. Plus they will still think I really care about them after I just used them!!

So what I should never do anymore is be open and honest with a girl, go out of my way for them, NOT try to get in their pants everyday, and care about them. This seems pretty simple. I got this ;)

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